synchronicity is a weird concept that happens when you don't look for it. When driving I notice cars with three or four identical digits in the license plate. But if I start checking each license plate I encounter, these repeaters suddenly come a long time apart! It is as if attention and intention conspire against synchronicity!
Same for other stuff: if I accidentally drop my phone and don't worry about it, it stays in one piece, but if my first thought is one of fear for it breaking, that is exactly what happens! It's kinda like the yin&yang acorsstic I made: You Intend Nothing , Yet All Needs Get met!
So I no longer fixate on stuff I need or want. I will express a desire, but with the complete lack of attachment to the outcome. Then suddenly it manifests in a most unlikely outcome.