Many posts on social media talk about the choices people make like there is some kind of problem: single woman over forty, what is the problem? Actually there is no problem, unless the woman herself sees a problem in it. She may be single by choice, and that would be nobodies business but her own!
A guy like me, seemingly single in the eyes of his neighbors, could be a problem too. But I do have a partner, and she is every bit a real woman. She just lives half a world away at present, but we're working on that. I usually just solve problems, instead of creating them or complaining about them...