They say the devil is in the details, but I beg to differ: everything is in the details, including the grand overall design I often talk about . The devil is just the evil we imagine around ourselves , without realizing it is our choices that make it good or bad. I can blame others for my misfortune but that would be just as useless as considering myself lucky : it is all in the decisions I make, and I tend to usually make that ones that over the years earned me the nickname :the Big Friendly Giant:.