Being helpful is an addiction of mine. Being shaped by a mother with the same addiction and a father who gave less positive examples in that area, I just had to turn out this way. And that's OK. In the end my choices were the ones that shaped me.
If we all help one or more others, then given the total population of over eight billion of us will make sure we all grow, since it is statistically impossible that any human in that set is not helped at all!