Bullies basically aim to control things because they feel helpless in the world they perceive around them. Hating them for it however is not the way to get them to loosen up. In the end only love can extinguish hate, just like light is the only thing that can replace dark.
Of course that is not entirely true, since dark can be caused by separation. Just think of a closed tin can, and you immediately know it is dark inside, unless there is a light source inside. Transparency however shines light everywhere, thus helping drive light across separations.