As it is all connected, one could ask where God resides. If we can agree on the fact god is all that is, then no thing or being in this reality can be NOT GOD. That may make you feel like: "Hey, but then is evil god also?" I feel yes, but will explain that further on the Moiré page. Suffice it to say that light and dark are not opposites or even distinct concepts.
Once you view everything from the connected viewpoint, bad things become opportunities to learn from, rather than mishaps to suffer, and blame the world for. This eventually leads to a state of acceptance, not as in "Surrendering to the bad", but rather "Seeing the eventual optimal outcome"