There really is no honest distinction between guys and gals, or any other human being in the complete spectrum. And life will find you the perfect match, if you allow it to. I knew the first time wasn't going to be forever, and so after 18 years this ended. The second serious one however became very serious, and I'll be committed to Her the rest of my life. Actually "Forever" is more appropriate, because I feel this is the One for me...