At the moment, a band called Ad Infinitum is singing about being in a hopeless black hole, and though I love the voice of their lead singer, I don't find myself in the same situation she sings about, even though I do agree with the lyrics "I believe revenge is not my way...". I don't get mad, I don't get even, I merely go about my ways because the Grand Overall Design shows me the path to go. No real reason to convince anyone else it is the right path, just minding my own business here...
And of course, all good things come in pairs: I became aware of Ad Infinitum when a friend invited me to a concert they held in Utrecht together with Beyond the Black and one more band. We only saw the first two, but it was awesome!