Does it matter whether your God is male, female or "any of the above, and more"? In my Reality, it is a force which is often referred to as "Source". Basically, that is about as good a description for the creative aspect of a god(dess) if you wish to remove the gender issue from your beliefs. Actually, it even removes the issue of god being an IT...
Source gives rise to the Grand Overall Design, which is a creation in the process of being created. It encompasses all, and as such cannot be separate from us. In fact, every creative act we undertake is part of Creation itself.