This home building 
shows a home I love, and even though it inspired the acrosstic, it will not be similar to the home in my dreams: ours will be built using similar techniques, but with more of a DIY vibe: Only call in the local companies when you can't do it yourself, like the concrete foundation, but do the walls and wooden framework myself in one of the long vacations over the next few years.
Videos like this help me aquire the knowhow about how to do it, and the rest is common knowledge and experience. Not sure whete all this will be done by me personally, that depends on how technology develops over time: I may well be able to acquire a Teslabot over time, which could be my telepresence over there, allowing me to work on the home even from the Netherlands regardless of where we need to build it...